You recognize yourself?
"I see and understand where I am blocking, but I can not change that.
"If therapy does not seem to work anymore"
You have already completed a trajectory within personal development and you notice that you start turning in circles?
This usually points to a karmic problem: injuries at the soul level. Our self-defense mechanism sabotages every therapeutic step towards such injuries.
How do you recognize karmic themes?
They are repeating patterns spread over several years. As if you came back to the same point after a while.
Family patterns in which you are trapped: whatever you try to get out of it, you do not see a way out.
Your way of functioning that you have known all your life, no longer work. However, you do not see alternatives because you do not know otherwise
Some examples of karmic themes
Commitment and abandonment fears that lead to repetitive relationship problems.
Chronic physical pains that come back in the family.
Existential fears that give you the feeling that you have to fight for everything in life.
A spiritual crisis that shakes you and throws all your convictions overboard.
Anxiety and panic attacks that you can not rationally explain.
Our logical reaction when karmic themes present themselves in our lives
is an instinctive reaction of fighting or fleeing. There are so deep fears that we see no other options.
We flee into work, sedation, social media, internet, ..., but the waves overwhelm us in the end anyway.
Fighting expresses itself as (desperately) trying to solve the problem that we experience as something that must be combated.
These reactions usually lead to increasing frustration and the well-known yo-yo effect: it is a matter of time that you return to old patterns.
With Alchemy of Sparks we guide people to turn that logical flight-of-fight response into strength to dare to contact the problem. Feel conscious and decode the message of our soul.
Once these messages are clear, their application in daily life follows through the paradox: doing what we find very exciting to do.
"Expanding awareness and acting on it is the greatest gift you can give to yourself!"
Gert De Smedt
We are learning how to surf the karmic waves of life. They no longer overwhelm us.
We can keep our center more and more, no matter what happens. We come in line with our soul and that gives us direction and meaning in our lives.
Obtaining insights into personal blockages also means gaining insights into personal qualities, whereby goals suddenly come closer and become feasible.
“By working on myself at Alchemy of Sparks, I have come to see the people around me as mirrors. It appears that my attention has always been on the others so that I would not have to connect with my own inner turmoil.
A remarkable result of that shift is the relationship with my mother. After 35 years of generation conflict, we can speak as adults for the first time without going into emotion or blaming.
35 years !!
As if I no longer recognize her. And yet, she hasn't changed.
The key was apparently in myself. "